Self - Love...

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Dear Me,

 Finally, this cruel life taught me how to love you...
Some years gone in a childish way to understand ‘what is love?’, dozens of people told me different definitions, and in the end I got nothing...
And when I started reading, Mr. Darcy, Mr. Rochester, Mr. Heathcliff enlighten me with the true feelings of Love...
After that I spend many years again in finding someone special whom I can love fully, like Juliet love.

 I did found one.....
 It was spring, the season of love where each and every flower was blooming with love.
I found him as a Romeo, and after a year I found out his Juliet is not me.
I found out that mine love was only real nothing else, he was not my real hero, He was not mine, he was just playing with my emotions, he was playing with my dainty heart...
 That feeling was brutal, cruel, savage, and barbarous thing is I didn't stop with that experience.... I was still searching for the ONE, and every time I got harsh end only...
And then, I started loving myself. It was not easy, firstly it was not favorable but afterwards I did realize I have no choice. If I have to live my last breath with myself only so how can I hate or deject myself?
That day I perceived, life has some awful ways to teach us how to stay happy in one life with oneself...

 Reader, sometimes sh*t happens with every one of us... We can’t control it, but we can choose our path from that time onwards, we can control the reaction from our side.
Because, every situation, circumstances, even coin have Pros and Cons or we can say Heads & Tail.
 Many a times we choose ‘Cons’ - depression, failure, misery; we despair ourselves from everything But WHY?
Just, because some person or some situation made us to feel that way? Isn’t it?
They told us that we are not good enough or we don’t have that caliber or that looks in us and we did accept that. Somewhere deep within we knew that they really don’t know us, but still we do surrendered to them.
And from that time onwards we do always feel that we are lacking in many things in metaphorically say or practically.

 Though, the truth is non-identical from our thinking.
We do believe in “Everyone is unique” true? Then why don’t you believe in yourself? You are also Exceptional, Noteworthy or I can say, Sui generis...
 You are remarkable because, no one knows your struggle for this life, nobody knows how much you have cried behind closed doors and fights battles that they can’t imagine about.
 You are nonpareil ‘cause, you still have little hope, courage, love, faith and aliveness within you, for you, and for those who showed you that, “If you are struggling today, it means you are moving ahead from yesterday.”
 Always remember,
Never stop loving yourself,
Appreciate yourself,
Pamper yourself,
Give some credits to you for your progress,
Once in a month or two take yourself out on a date,
And most importantly, Say thank you everyday to yourself that somewhere in all these time
“An art of love was kindled in you, for you.”

Eventually, you are satisfied with your graph of life, where no matter what decisions you made or how much were gone wrong; but in the end you reached on a summit from where you can enjoy your view astonishingly.

In precis :

“Within you is the power to rise above any situation or struggle
 and transform into the brightest, strongest version of you EVER!"
Because YOU ARE BEAUTIFUL... ♥♥♥

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- Nidhi ☺😘❤