What defines you?

Aloha reader,

Eminem says, “Never allow yourself to be defined by someone else’s opinion of you.”

Likewise, C. Kennedy says, “Don't judge yourself by what others did to you.”

But Internet says, “The correct answer to "what defines a person" is “NOTHING”. There is no correct definition of a human being -- human being "transcends definitions".”

I fully support to what Eminem and C. Kennedy are trying to tell us, besides what Internet conveying is not fully rational.

I am saying, neither your past defines you nor your good manners.
Good manners can be superficial or faked for a time being to impress people or society, whereas past is something you would always think and will never want to talk about. Past means something no longer existent but refusing to abandon us, past is like a teacher who will guide you on where to move ahead and when to stop.

 It’s okay!! Everybody has done some doltish mistakes in the past, but those mistakes can’t cease you. It’s fine, if you did trust generously to someone who pretended to be like honest and sober but in real he was just a perfidious, or your future plans didn’t work out. It’s alright if you have given up on something which was toxic for you. Even if something had damaged your fragile soul don’t give the power to those pessimistic feelings to overpower your tiny optimistic inner voice.
All these incidents are an example of successful vanquishment on your gloominess…

The truth is you will always find people with their colorful past.
Each color has it’s own meaning like As Black as gloominess, while Grey describes some chaos where people can’t justify how much is truth and how much is a lie, as red as anger or unforgivable past, yellow, green or, orange. All these colors suggests as optimistic, cheerful, positive and happy times. Always remember “Past” the word itself says that Gone by in time, so there is no meaning to waste your time in rethinking or reevaluating the results because you cannot change that and it is worthless too.

As I said earlier, what defines you is your inherent mentality / thinking, quality of being unprejudiced, and choices you have made.
Here, Batman (Bruce Wayne) also wants to remind you; “It's not who I am underneath, but what I do that defines me.”

In sum – up,

 Seize the day! Be yourself, do what you always love to do, do not stress yourself because of others but be always there in doing something good for others and don’t blow your time in judging someone because ‘Beauty is only skin deep.’
Moreover, it’s never too late to change your life, or to dream a new dream…

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-Nidhi 😄